If there is one thing in this world I absolutely cannot stand its people that can't accept responsibility for their own actions. Like don't you think sometimes it would just be easier to say, "Yeah, it's my fault," Or "I'm Sorry"
instead of sitting there making a bigger deal trying to explain why its NOT your fault when in reality everyone knows it is?
I'm not saying I'm perfect by any means, but my parents did raise me to be accountable and of course I'm not ALWAYS, and I will admit that. But something my Grandpa told me before he died has always stuck with me.
It takes a bigger person to admit your wrong.
Is it not true? It takes balls. Some people have it in them and some people don't. What I've learned is its been easier for me to admit my wrongs and work on them for MYSELF. Not anyone else. Admitting I'm wrong and accepting responsibility for the things I do isn't just for the other person. To help fix myself I need to know in my heart I was wrong and better MYSELF.
I can't stand it when people are always saying.. "Ok I'm sorry.. BUT you did this..." or "The reason this is happening is because of yourself, YOU did this"
Like why can't you just SAY SORRY?
And be sincere?
I have been dealing with this a lot lately and it makes me so frustrated.
..... As you can so clearly tell.
Who knows what the future holds. All I can say is I know I did my part and if push comes to shove, I can walk away knowing I tried and that will make me stronger. What the other person does with that is up to them.
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